What’s hot and what’s not……

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This is not your typical fashion what’s hot and what’s not blog.  I am not about to tell you what is hot this season and what is not.   I want to talk about personality and how it’s hot to be kind, thoughtful and positive.  Be the kind of person that people want to be around.  That is hot! 

What’s hot? 

Uplifting others! I love when I see people supporting and uplifting others.  I particularly love seeing women empowering other women.  Being genuinely happy for someone else’s success is hot!  I love surrounding myself around inspiring people.  Inspiring people inspire others to be better and that is a beautiful thing.  There is no limit to success so why not wish success for everyone,  there is enough for all us.


What’s not?

Tearing others down!  This is such an envious thing to see.  I see a lot of this, especially on social media.   It’s such a massive turn off for me.  I think this mostly comes from people who have low self esteem and I am not sure they even realize the damage that this can cause.


What’s hot?  

Positive people are on my hot list!  People who can find the positive in every situation are my kind of people.   Positive people always have a great energy about them and who doesn’t want to be around great energy?  Positive people are usually smiling and happy and that is contagious!  This world needs as much positive energy as possible!

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What’s not?

Negative people!  Negative people are usually scowling and look miserable.   I avoid these people at all costs because they can be so draining.  Please don’t mess with my positive vibes!   I often wonder if they even realize how negative they are.  I am a firm believer that you get what you put out there.  So if you are thinking negative thoughts then you will receive negative things in your life.   I don’t understand it, I am just not wired to think like that so that’s all I have to really say about this one.


What’s hot?

Kind people.  I wish there were more kind people in this world.   We can all do better at this one.  Everyone deserves kindness and compassion.  Thoughtful,  caring,  helpful and gracious all mesh with being a kind person.   Like Ellen says at the end of every show,  be kind to one another.  It’s not a hard thing to do but I see us struggling with this one.


What’s not?

Inconsiderate and unkind people.  These are the people that can ruin your day.  Unkind people can be bullies and they get off on putting others down.  The compassionate side of me realizes that these people don’t love themselves they way that they should.  So I will send them positive vibes and hopefully they realize that being unkind gets you nowhere in life.

So, what do you think?  Did you make it to my hot list?  Or not so much?  I will continue to work on my hotness and try to be the best person I can be.  I think I can improve on a few things myself.   Nobody is perfect and I am always learning and growing and that is hot!!

Melissa Gauvreau – Styled by M

Stay fabulous!

  2 comments for “What’s hot and what’s not……

  1. August 13, 2019 at 6:27 pm

    Love it. So true especially in the field of what I create. I am very fortunate to have some great support and vice versa with several “bossbabemakers”.

    Liked by 1 person

    • styledbymfashion
      August 14, 2019 at 2:17 pm

      Yes so very true, I love how supportive you are are to me. It goes a long way.


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